How to choose the right Sex Toy #1:Why Do I Want a Toy?

I talk a lot about all the different kinds of sex toys and romance products out there, but I haven’t said much about how to choose the right one for you. With so many options, those of us who may never have used a vibrator, c-ring or anal plug can be completely overwhelmed.  Even those of us who have experimented a little can have a hard time making a decision.  This is the first in a series of posts about how to choose the right sex toys for you.

Why do you want a toy?

This really is the most important question. Maybe the only question.

• You and your partner have been together forever!

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Toys are great for bringing back a little newness into a relationship that feels a little stale in a rut.

They’re perfect for injecting a little of that thrilling “awkwardness”  that comes with infatuation and the first time you hit the sack.

Perhaps you’re ready to try something different, maybe a fantasy that has been percolating awhile, or stretching the bounds of your self-defined routines.

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• You and your partner are relatively new to each other, and you are keen to experiment and try everything, the wilder the better.

Experimentation is the name of the game when it comes to toys. Pretty much, if you can think of it, there’s a toy to help you go there.

• You, or your female partner, are looking for a quicker, easier, more reliable way of achieving the big ‘O’.

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This is REALLY important: Only 24% of women orgasm from penetration alone. Guys, yes YOU (Those lovely women who sleep with other women already know this!) that means most likely your woman can only achieve satisfaction through clitoral stimulation, which, for your information, is more complicated than jerking off!

Adding a small, discreet vibrator is not designed to replace you, but to offer her something your body simply cannot do. Which will make her happier. She’ll like you more. Maybe she’ll even sleep with you more. Isn’t that the point?

And women, this means that nothing is wrong with you if you don’t orgasm from penetration without clitoral stimulation, it just means you’re like most other women!  If you’re worried about your partner’s reaction to being introduced to a toy, read here.

• You have sex by yourself and your right (or left) hand is seriously over it.

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Nuf’ said.

• You just wanna have some fun.

This could be the best reason of all. After all, sex toys are TOYS, and toys are meant to be played with. Playing is fun! Remember? We all just take sex way too seriously!

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If this post hit the spot, take a look at these:

• Introducing Sex Toys to your Relationship
• Give Your Girl an Orgasm!
• It Hurts! And my dildo is lonely.